- Sunday life: in which I try a new technique for making good decisions (in love) This week I try out “satisfycing” for size. The inspiration for this week’s reflection is the release of Lori Gottlieb’s Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr Good Enough, the latest tome to tell women how to score a bloke. Gosh, and there we all were living life according to the 2004 self-help gospel more